I was lucky enough to recently be a guest on a podcast talking about the role that LGBTQ people have played in many of the day to day aspects of life, career and social welfare, including those that are currently being limited or threatened. A few of the people in the room mentioned that would love to know what some of my favorite reads were while I was working in Gay/Bi Mens health and on my dissertation. So I put together this quick list of some of my favorites.
One note here worth a mention- I dont love all of them or even always agree with some 100% – but I think they challenged me to think and use critical thinking skills. Something I am very keen on.
Most of them are linked in my LGBTQ Amazon List but you can find many of these at your second hand and independent bookstores too!
Have more suggestions to add?
Feel free to share them with me and I will add them to this list. You can send your suggestion using this: https://mentorsf.com/resources-links/ or add them in the comments to the post.
Frank!
📚 LGBTQ & Queer Literature; Some Favorites Offering Critical, Historical, and Contemporary Perspectives
- A Queer History of the United States (ReVisioning History Book 1) Bronski, Michael 2012 https://a.co/d/02YCCts
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Across an Untried Sea: Discovering Lives Hidden in the Shadow of Convention and Time — Julia Markus; Alfred A. Knopf, 2013, https://a.co/d/2NaJbyd
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And the Band Played On: Politics, People, and the AIDS Epidemic — Randy Shilts; Penguin Books https://a.co/d/ixD6QBP
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Anti-gay — Mark Simpson; Freedom Editions, 1996 https://a.co/d/exqFNax
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Blue Movie: Scenes from the Life of a Sexual Outlaw — Stephan Ferris; Unbound Edition Press
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Close to the Knives: A Memoir of Disintegration — David Wojnarowicz; Sun & Moon Press; 2014 https://a.co/d/6ArMRii
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Coming Out Under Fire: The History of Gay Men and Women in World War II — Allan Bérubé; University of North Carolina Press, 2010 https://a.co/d/faE087P
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Crisis: 40 Stories Revealing the Personal, Social, and Religious Pain and Trauma of Growing Up Gay in America — Mitchell Gold & Mindy Drucker; Greenleaf Book Group, 2008 https://a.co/d/eLN901q
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The Culture of Desire: Paradox and Perversity in Gay Lives Today — Frank Browning; Crown, 1993 https://a.co/d/dJr2sif
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Dry Bones Breathe: Gay Men Creating Post-AIDS Identities and Cultures — Eric E. Rofes; Haworth Press, 1998 https://a.co/d/1c0o5pA
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The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Adventures — Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy; Ten Speed Press; 1997 (updated editions in 2009, 2017) https://a.co/d/bcIjrmo
- Enhancing Pleasure for Gay Men, Martinez, Israel, 2024 https://a.co/d/8Igz3q0
- Fat Gay Men: Girth, Mirth, and the Politics of Stigma — Jason Whitesel, 2024 https://a.co/d/4xS88TF
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Funeral Diva — Pamela Sneed; City Lights; 2020 https://a.co/d/hH6lLsK
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Gay American Autobiography: Writings from Whitman to Sedaris — David Bergman; University of Wisconsin Press, 2009 https://a.co/d/6I5eblX
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Gay Shame — David M. Halperin & Valerie Traub; University of Chicago Press, 2024 https://a.co/d/6eLyeRw
- Gay Science: The Totally Scientific Examination of LGBTQ+ Culture, Myths, and Stereotypes, Anderson, Rob 2024 https://a.co/d/ilAhAs9
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Growing Up Before Stonewall: Life Stories of Some Gay Men — Peter M. Nardi; Taylor & Francis US, 2014 https://a.co/d/ihayfMM
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Histories of the Transgender Child — Jules Gill-Peterson; University of Minnesota Press; 2018 https://a.co/d/gNUDhPI
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Homie — Danez Smith; Graywolf Press; 2020 https://a.co/d/0SYXpbW
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In Changing Times: Gay Men and Lesbians Encounter HIV/AIDS — Martin P. Levine, Peter M. Nardi & John H. Gagnon; University of Chicago Press, 1997 https://a.co/d/aTuWJKw
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In Search of Stonewall: The Riots at 50 / The Gay & Lesbian Review at 25: Best Essays, 1994–2018 — Richard Schneider Jr.; G&LR Books, 2019 https://a.co/d/1FHhbGH
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The Mayor of Castro Street: The Life and Times of Harvey Milk — Randy Shilts; Macmillan, 2008 https://a.co/d/3Is2Dag
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Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/M Lovemaking — Race Bannon; Daedalus Publishing Company, 1993 https://a.co/d/9sQ1C2W
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Let the Record Show: A Political History of ACT UP New York, 1987–1993 — Sarah Schulman; Farrar, Straus and Giroux; 2021 https://a.co/d/iskh2TV
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Lilac People — Milo Todd; Counterpoint Press; 2025 https://a.co/d/8ffiepz
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My Government Means to Kill Me — Rasheed Newson; Flatiron Books; 2022 https://a.co/d/5GmKOFM
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No Straight Lines: Four Decades of Queer Comics — Justin Hall (Editor); Fantagraphics Books; 2012/2013 https://a.co/d/4HD3keJ
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The Pleasure Instinct: Why We Crave Adventure, Chocolate, Pheromones, and Music — Gene Wallenstein; Wiley, https://a.co/d/iCbMcsp
- The Pleasure Principle: Sex, Backlash, and the Struggle for Gay Freedom — Michael Bronski; Macmillan 1998 https://a.co/d/eMLR9Ka
- Queer in America: Sex, the Media, and the Closets of Power — Michelangelo Signorile; University of Wisconsin Press, 1993 https://a.co/d/43iWEmm
- Queering Anarchism: Addressing and Undressing Power and Desire — C. B. Daring, J. Rogue, Deric Shannon & Abbey Volcano; AK Press, 2013 https://a.co/d/4LCO8KY
- The Queer Art of History: Queer Kinship After Fascism — Jennifer V. Evans; Duke University Press; 2023 https://a.co/d/4UDscAu
- Queers in History: The Comprehensive Encyclopedia of Historical Gays, Lesbians and Bisexuals, and Transgenders — Keith Stern; BenBella
- Reviving the Tribe: Regenerating Gay Men’s Sexuality and Culture in the Ongoing Epidemic — Eric E. Rofes; Haworth Press, 2013 https://a.co/d/9yD92fY
- Sexual Ecology: AIDS and the Destiny of Gay Men — Gabriel Rotello; Plume, 1997 https://a.co/d/im5l92p
- Sexualia: From Prehistory to Cyberspace — Clifford Bishop & Xenia Osthelder; Könemann, 2001 https://a.co/d/i2ElZak
- Sexy Origins and Intimate Things: The Rites and Rituals of Straights, Gays, Bi’s, Drags, Trans, Virgins, and Others — Charles Panati; Penguin Books, 1998 https://a.co/d/40KcaCB
- Stonewall: The Definitive Story of the LGBTQ Rights Uprising that Changed America — Martin B. Duberman; Plume 2019 https://a.co/d/5D8arnK
- Stonewall Experiment — Ian Young; Bloomsbury Academic
- Stonewall Generation: LGBTQ Elders on Sex, Activism, and Aging, Flieshman, Jane and Bortnstein, Kate, Skinner House, 2020 https://a.co/d/5KTNLge
- Stonewall: The Riots That Sparked the Gay Revolution,Carter, David, St. Maartin’s Griffin, 2010 https://a.co/d/hjPzw8V
- Strange Relations: Queerness in Mid-Century American Culture — Ralf Webb; Sceptre; 2024
- Strategic Sex: Why They Won’t Keep It in the Bedroom — D. Travers Scott; Harrington Park Press, 1999 https://a.co/d/1tS9pdp
- Telling Sexual Stories: Power, Change, and Social Worlds — Kenneth Plummer; Taylor & Francis US. https://a.co/d/gXXRiOz
- The Book of Pride: LGBT Heroes Who Changed the World, — Funk, Mason; HarperOne; 2024 https://a.co/d/8cNHdw1
- The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World, Downs, Alan, Legacy Lit https://a.co/d/6zvA2iz
- Uncharted Lives: Understanding the Life Passages of Gay Men — Stanley Siegel & Ed Lowe; Dutton, 1994 https://a.co/d/6X5eBKI
- Unlimited Intimacy: Reflections on the Subculture of Barebacking — Tim Dean; University of Chicago Press, 2009 https://a.co/d/5j3VlRV
- Virology: Essays for the Living, the Dead, and the Small Things in Between — Joseph Osmundson; Norton; 2022 https://a.co/d/7JZ2Xwb




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