Things I would Tell My Younger Self 2024 Edition
I posted a version of this in the past and thought it was well worth reposting; Things I would Tell My Younger Self 2024 Edition
Ever want to tell your younger self something?
That wistful thinking that comes from knowing what we know now, and how it would have been so useful then. That’s the kind of mornings I get around this time of the year. The big stressful holidays are behind us, the days are slowly getting lighter. The reality of everything to catch up on, starts to hit home. Here is how I started thinking about the lessons learned if I had a ” Things I would Tell My Younger Self 2024 Edition ” list.
We all get those days when we find ourselves in a whirlwind of “what ifs”, ‘what’s next”, “why me” and so on. It’s at this time of the year I sometimes find myself doing it more than others. I am never sure if it is triggered by the changing seasons that remind me that time is moving on or is it just old memories that come home for a metaphorical “visit”. I just know that I get reflective. Sometimes a little sad and look to my younger self as the measuring stick to track the miles in this journey, we call life.
Transitions and Changes
In any case, this week I found myself unsettled one night. Old hurt feelings coming to the surface dealing real and (maybe not so real) professional slights. Those struggles when not fitting in, that sense of “imposter syndrome”, sitting in the back of your mind, or times when I would feel like an “afterthought” professionally among colleagues. Who would think that after so many years of working. Being considered a success in my personal and professional life by most people. I would still occasionally find myself in this mental turbine.
So when this happens, I took some of my own advice and get out from my office or the house; rain, or shine and walk to clear the mental cobwebs. It was on one of these walks I decided to make a list, of the lessons learned that I wish I could have told to my younger self. In the end, I liked making the list so much, I stopped along the way to jot some down and next thing I knew I had a full 15 of them.
So consider it my “Spring will come” basket to share this with you all. While they may not all resonate with you – I bet you can find a few that do! Or better yet make your own!
15 Things I Would Tell My Younger Self
- Stay True To Who You Are; but be willing to hear others points of view
- Allow Space; for multiple truths and perceptions
- Be Agile; change is a constant, agility allows you movement
- Don’t Hold Grudges; today’s enemies may be tomorrows allies
- Speak Your Truth; but temper it with clarity and succinctness
- Know When To Hold Your Tongue; you don’t have to win every argument or take ownership of a conversation
- Find Comfort in Alone Time; being constantly surrounded by people and distractions, won’t allow you time for your own discovery of you
- Don’t Judge; the story playing in someone else’s life is often not the one playing in your mind
- Be Strong, but not at the expense of love, vulnerability, and sensitivity
- Love Who and How You Want; never let anyone define the way you love
- Forgive Others; you may not forget, but forgiveness allows you to move on
- Don’t Be Afraid To Fail; because with failure comes knowledge and experience
- Never Stop Reaching For Your Dreams; they don’t happen overnight and they change, but they never leave you fully
- Don’t Get Stuck In The Binary; being right or wrong, good or bad are just moments in time
- Live Your Life; we only have one
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About Frank Strona
As a nationally known writer, educator, advisor, technology, coach, strategic engagement and content specialist, I have been active in the pursuit to improve, educate and promote opportunities that support the engaged learner and business while also preparing the workforce with the tools and skills necessary to stay competitive in a rapidly expanding technology-based world.